what difference would it make if i were more confident? things would seem more natural and i wouldn't be afraid to do miniscule tasks. things such as asking ppl for help, answering/keeping up/not being MIA with friends all the time, getting the job done because i'm afraid to interact with some ppl, hanging out at it's a grind, or panera bread more often, talking on vent/xbox live/ps3 network while gaming, going up to a girl. the possibilities are endless with what i could do with that kind of confidence.
to me, confidence is something you can wear. not everyone has it, but if you do, you look extremely good. confidence is the attitude to not give a fuck. the feeling that you are "on top of the world" and nothing can stop you. confidence is feeling like a million dollars. unconfident people are very awkward, shy, and introverted. while confident ppl are outgoing, fun, and true/honest. if i were more confident, i would be more social with friends and talk more with them. develop a better friendship.
i believe there are a few things that hold me back from being confident. mainly it's the way i look. my body/stature bother me. i don't have the skinny physique to pull off many of the looks i want. i have a skinnyfat body tape. also i believe my face isn't beautiful. i have a short of roundish face and a few acne scars. also my skin isn't as clear and beautiful as most people. also i believe that my voice is high and timid. instead of these beliefs i would rather believe that:
1. my voice is very deep/masculine and very loud.
2. my face is clear and beautiful.
3. i am not fat and i can wear whatever i desire.
for these new beliefs i would have to be more consistent. consistent in terms of diet, exercise, and face-cleaning/hygiene.
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