500 Days pt. 2

It's weird how fast you can forget someone by loving someone else. And don't assume that it's only in the situation of overcoming a heartbreak because although that's the case in most situations, there are different situations also. You love something more, it replaces the other, it's as simple as that. Although the movie, 500 Days is a story about love and how realistic it is, I don't think it was realistic enough. Yes, it is harsh to assume that love is just fantasy, but isn't it also equally immature to think that there is destiny and that love only comes when you meet the right person. Those are the two extreme views of love, but if I were in the love-view spectrum, I'd probably be in the middle. I think love is definitely different for every person and there's no one-size-fits-all-defintion. Also, although love is not fantasy, life goes on, and in most cases love fails, love does exists, but it is very rare. Love isn't something that you feel, it is a work of countless trial-and-error, it is one of the hardest things to find, that is true love is the hardest thing to acquire these days. Also I don't believe in destiny though I do believe that God has a plan for everyone, it isn't predestined. For life to be predestined is to assume that there is no free will, if there is no free will, how can God judge our actions (assuming He exists) if he already knows what we do in life? I believe there is free will in most decisions we make.